If you’ve ever been blindsided by a lawyer’s letter or a last-minute court move, you know what it feels like to be reacting instead of leading. It’s exhausting, demoralising, and expensive. The solution? Learn to operate inside your ex’s OODA loop — a concept borrowed from military and aviation strategy that applies beautifully to high-stakes family disputes. What’s the OODA Loop? Developed by U.S. Air Force Colonel John Boyd, the OODA loop stands for: Observe – Gather inf

Now that you know how to use ChatGPT to write a legal letter, let’s talk about the actual prompts that work best. You don’t need to be a lawyer or an AI whisperer. You just need a clear structure and five minutes of focus. 1. Before You Start When you open ChatGPT: ✅ Use the GPT-4 model (available in the $20/month plan). ✅ If possible, use a Custom GPT you’ve set up for your case — it remembers your correspondence, tone, and key facts. ✅ Always paste or attach your previo

If you’ve ever spent $400 on a “short” lawyer letter, (and been underwhelmed with the result or timeframe) this one’s for you. You can now draft clean, professional, and well-structured legal correspondence using ChatGPT — and it’s easier than you think. When the relationship falls apart, and we start exchanging legal correspondence, most of us are caught by suprise. To use a volleyball metaphor, we are standing at the baseline flat-footed and waiting for the next ball (lett

He’d spent weeks assembling every document—tax returns, bank statements, property valuations, and debt schedules—ready to finalise disclosure. Then the email arrived. “Our client requires urgent support. Unless you agree to pay $800 per week in interim spousal maintenance and $100,000 by way of interim property settlement, our client will commence proceedings immediately.” The letter was polished and polite, but the message was blunt: pay now, or be dragged through court . Th